Learning how to use a FlossGrip

Feb. 18th, 2026 11:49 am
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I posted a while ago about acquiring a FlossGrip floss holder, but it was awkward to use. Since then I've figured out a few things, so I thought I would share.

  • I use slippery floss because my teeth are closely spaced, so I need to wrap around the posts 5 times rather than 3. It is also easier if there's a tail on each side, so I use about 9 inches of floss (the length of the FlossGrip plus a couple inches) each time. This is about half of what I used with just my fingers.
  • It's easier to wrap the floss with dry hands, before I brush my teeth.
  • The FlossGrip is embossed on one side with "FlossGrip", which makes it easier to keep track of which post I wrapped first, for unwrapping.
  • The little slots that lock in the floss are compressed by wrapping the floss around the posts, which means there is a just-right tension that lets the floss slide in, and then holds it securely.
  • It helps to angle the FlossGrip to match the actual angle of each gap between my teeth, not what I imagine the angle to be.
  • It also helps to minimize the pressure I use to get down into each gap, so I don't irritate my gums.


So that's it, what a geeky person thinks about while flossing her teeth.
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My sister and I went out with family friends last week* to catch a band at one of the local pubs, the slightly unusual element being that it was at the local biker bar (Satan's Slaves, County Durham Chapter). I did wonder if the band ('One-oh-One, I think) would be any good, but they opened with All The Small Things, then segued into London Calling, followed by No More Heroes, and I'd basically found my ideal playlist - I did think at one point 'All this needs to be perfect is Swords of a Thousand Men', and it cropped up shortly afterwards.

There's something slightly incongruous about having a bunch of bikers in denim and leathers warning you as you leave to "Be careful on these steps now, they're really slippy. Hope you had a good time, this rainy weather's horrible, isn't it?'

My sister was also out the day before at a Lourdes fundraiser at a church-hall over in Darlington - pie, peas, and 'Bongo-Bingo'. Proper Bongo-Bingo is apparently a raucous franchise version of bingo with lots of party games, silly prizes and dancing on tables, but this was the Catholic version, so they missed out the dancing on tables. The compere/bingo caller, sitting next to a life-sized cut-out of Pope Leo, was moonlighting from his day-job as Head of RE at the local Catholic comprehensive, and pointed out any complaints should go to the Dean (senior priest, sitting on my sister's table).

Sample bingo call: 'Thirty-Three - Nailed to a Tree' (OMG, you can't say that!)

"We have bingo dabbers for sale if you need them - a pound to Catholics, four pounds to Protestants"!

"Hands up if you're a teacher?", followed by  disappointed look + <*Teacherly voice /*> "It's your own time you're wasting".

Trying to jolly everyone up "This is about as lively as the Lourdes fund-raiser at St Johns!"**

First prize dished out was a Virgin Mary fancy dress costume, other prizes included the life-sized cut-out of Pope Leo.

* I wrote this the next day, but accidentally lost the complete post just short of posting and didn't have the energy to re-write it, but it restored itself when I accidentally went into message creation just now.

** The next Catholic comprehensive over, the one I went to.

Accomplishments, sorta?

Feb. 18th, 2026 06:33 am
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  1. I've discovered that after a night's sleep I feel way better in my joints & muscles if I stay in the uncompressed middle of the mattress. I should probably rotate it.
  2. Yeah, orgasms are easier to come by lately. Is it longer days or lower estrogen levels? Tune in next winter.
  3. I've successfully done business correspondence in Esperanto. And why? Because I was trying to order the news monthly Monato, which is published in Belgium, and payments between North America and Europe are a pain.
  4. Edited to add: spent Monday and part of last night cleaning house. Nobody's coming over, but it was time.
  5. Edited to add some more: definitely making progress on the Burning Man Checklist of Doom.

The February Big Tech Boycott

Feb. 18th, 2026 09:27 am
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Have you heard about this February Big Tech Boycott in protest of Big Tech's support of ICE's activities in the United States?

https://www.npr.org/2026/02/07/nx-s1-5704402/boycott-tech-ice-scott-galloway

I've personally already had a slew of other reasons to boycott a number of these companies, but I'm still interested in continuing to cut any financial ties to them, wherever and whenever I can. I've blogged before about how challenging it can get to track down certain kinds of things in my area, which is part of the challenge of not handing money to companies that engage in unscrupulous and/or unethical business practices.

So I just wanted to bring this boycott to your attention, in case you hadn't already heard about it, and note that I am personally aiming to continue my efforts to disengage from these companies as much as possible.
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It's Tuesday, which means Lab Day. And a real rollercoaster this time. I have to vaguebook, but the net outcome is that a lot of learning happened and I am tired and in that sort of state where I like to imagine downing a solid shot of rum (in practice I don't often drink much, particularly when it's just me and the cats - just imagining is sufficient!).

One of those days where I have to somehow summon energy to go home.

Onward.
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(UPI) University of Maryland researchers designed "Smart Underwear" to track and measure flatulence -- and they are seeking volunteers to wear them.

[...]

"We don't actually know what normal flatus production looks like," [Brantley] Hall[, an assistant professor in the Department of Cell Biology and Molecular Genetics] said. "Without that baseline, it's hard to know when someone's gas production is truly excessive."

The team is seeking participants who fall into three categories developed from [Santiago] Botasini's team's research: Zen Digesters, those who consume high fiber diets yet pass gas rarely; Hydrogen Hyperproducers -- "simply put, people who fart a lot;" and Normal People, those who fall between the other two categories.

another blast from my past

Feb. 16th, 2026 08:21 am
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Coffee at the mighty fine joint six blocks from my house with grad school classmate E. Yet more discussion of the struggles of parents, this time with ADHD & transness. Confirmed: E is two for two with the trans kids. And you know how Good Sister did nearly all the heavy lifting of taking care of Mom in my family? E is the good sister in her family. It was a beautiful day for a bite out of a perspective sandwich.

I wanted to go out for house music at Flammable, but I woke up too early due to homemade Ma Po tofu on Saturday. Le sigh. Betrayed by my body for the second time this weekend.

And why would I even think of going out on a Sunday night? Because I have the day off and, naturally, a to-do list. More typing when it's done.

Partial Redemption [rowing]

Feb. 16th, 2026 09:15 am
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After a failure like not even managing to get to the event at all, just making it to the starting line of an event starts to feel like a victory.

blah blah blah bazillions of rowing details )

Panel Suggestions Still Open

Feb. 15th, 2026 07:53 pm
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Panels Suggestions are open! So, far we have 42 suggestions, and yeah, we want more! Let your voices be heard! What would you want to hear discussed at WisCon this year? Give us your wild, your feminist, your rage, your joy, and your curiosity!

PANEL SUGGESTIONS ARE CLOSING SOON!

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfvi7TCCIHg82rSpzrUKl8wX2SNMevlGP5HxOOnqa0pkrWu2w/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=106072416256127446722

#WisCon #WomenInSFF #FeministConvention

a... something from my past

Feb. 15th, 2026 08:32 am
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But first, and this does come into play later: on Friday evening I got a COVID shot, etc. at CVS, no fuss no muss, a historically normal drugstore experience. There was a time when I would have taken that for granted, but not anymore. Pity CVS is kind of a hike from my place, unlike the cursed Walgreen's.

On to yesterday afternoon. I had coffee with [profile] dianala! Whom I hadn't seen since before the pandemic. She's one of my oldest friends in the Seattle area, and she's also the one who plugged me into MOO and thereby the kink community, LiveJournal and thereby Dreamwidth, etc. So you could say she's had an outsize influence on my life. She didn't work as hard at it as, say, [personal profile] cupcake_goth, but she administered some crucial course corrections at a few points in my life.

We're all living with the aftermath of the pandemic. Her two boys, now young men, have got the 'tism like whoa, and that's basically consumed her life since the pandemic started; the pandemic made it significantly harder. Her husband [personal profile] lister, who I actually think is cool, seems to be fighting depression, and she recognizes that she needs to get out & be more social. I'll do what I can, natch, but neither clubbing nor kink nor bleepy goodness are her thing. There's art, though.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised that we've grown in such different directions since the turn of the century – she was the self-styled Big Dyke On Campus back in the early '90s – but I confess to being a little sad about it.

It's funny how she & I have both given into do-gooder impulses: I mainly through Lambert House, and she by starting a non-profit that does micro-grants fast, which is often of the essence. I'm impressed.

Fun fact: the user pic I used was taken in the very early aughts inside what was then [profile] dianala's house.

I went to the Mercury briefly. I enjoyed the Valentine's Day decorations as only [profile] seelenschwester would do them, plus all the femmes femmed up more than usual. (J of A&J fame confirmed my suspicion.) But the COVID shot kicked my butt and I left early. I swung by Pony on the way to the train station; I didn't feel the music, but I did start feeling a sore ankle. That was Goddess telling me to go home already, which I did.

Oh: of course one of the Merc DJs played a song that I first heard at one of [profile] dianala's parties. Kind of perfect, really.

Oh oh: the train to the north end announced itself as a 2 line train*! Hurrah! The automatic station announcements were for stations in Redmond, so the conductor had to get on the PA and give out the real ones for, you know, north Seattle. It is to laugh.



*For you out-of-towners, our light rail network isn't quite networked just yet: the two light rail lines are disconnected. The 1 line runs the length of Seattle and then some, and the 2 line stays on the east side of Lake Washington. That all changes on March 28th, though, when the world's only rail over a floating bridge opens to the public. They were testing things out yesterday. You know I'm psyched about this.
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It occurs to me that some folks might want to know about CAIABB (Canadian Authors and Illustrators Against Book Bans) and even, you know, join. But I keep forgetting to bump it here.

In the wake of US Supreme Court reinforcement of the ban on children's books that discuss LGBTQ+ and racialized experiences, my pals Kari Jones and Robin Stevenson founded Canadian Authors and Illustrators Against Book Bans.

Robin's book about an adorable puppy at a pride parade was the target of a particularly nasty spew of vitriol. Robin is perhaps the kindest, most generous person in the world, and she gets incredible amounts of hate for making affirming books for queer kids and families.

There's a Linktree here, but most of the action is on Instagram.

(ETA: [personal profile] bibliofile points out that they are also on Bluesky.)

Note: CAIABB is not directly affiliated with the American organization Authors Against Book Bans, but they cooperate with similar orgs, like PEN.

§rf§
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It's a big study. Times and thoughts on things change, but it looks like coffee and tea in moderation can be protective for drinkers. I also drink a couple of cups of caffeinated coffee for other health reasons, so this becomes doubly useful.

Ironically, it was tea for many years until about ten years ago. And I started drinking coffee because my system demanded it. Took years to know why.

Yes, I am slightly picky. Single source, high mountain, caffeinated. Always Central American coffees first!

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/2844764
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I no longer remember when I first started reading BikeSnob NYC, but he introduced me to a lot of important concepts and ideas about bicycling over the years, including things like, don't ride a bike that's so precious you'll be devastated when it's stolen. Periodically, he would title a post, "The Indignity of Commuting by Bicycle," and I appreciate those posts more often than I'd like to, because I do think that life as a bike commuter exposes a person to analogous sorts of microaggressions and indignities as other people report experiencing based on other aspects of their identity.

Anyway, we had that large snowstorm, back on January 25-26. Enough time had passed since the previous time the city had experienced more than a foot of snow, that people forgot everything involved in dealing with more than a foot of snow falling at once, and there has been a lot of haphazard chaos as a result. A friend of mine who is involved in advocacy for walkability, for instance, noted that it took a really long time for sidewalks and crosswalks to get cleared (full week and change); to add insult to injury, over the process of trying to clear things, the City announced it was going to be staging piles of snow temporarily in crosswalks. In the meantime, the City's efforts to declare a Snow Emergency to get people to move their cars didn't go as well as planned, and they wound up having to tow more vehicles than ever before (over 300!), meaning snow-clearing efforts even for motor vehicles were totally hampered.

As a result, many of the bike lanes that I use during better weather are still completely given over to car parking right now, because people parking their cars on the street prefer to be able to open and exit through the passenger side, and they can't do that if they park right next to the curb full of snowbank.

In the midst of it all, on a couple of mornings I have packed my avalanche shovel along with me, so I could clear out a couple of strategic spots: most especially, the post I lock my bike to in front of a coffeeshop, and a crosswalk that I know a lot of people use (myself included) but that no one appeared to want to take responsibility for, based on how it remained full of snow for a solid week after the storm. I actually worked on clearing that crosswalk on two separate mornings, because after my first clearing it became apparent that the path needed to be at least wide enough for two people traveling in opposite directions to pass each other, not just wide enough for one person.

Anyway, I've been using that shoveled-out bike parking spot very regularly ever since, whenever we head over for coffee after rowing practice. Every time, I thank myself for that particular round of shoveling. It's far more convenient than trying to lock up to one of the bike share racks, which really aren't set up well for conventional bike parking, possibly by design. See, e.g.:

Winter bike parking in Albany

Anyway, this morning while we were drinking coffee, and while my bike was parked in that spot, someone came along again and decided to rummage through my bike basket again, only this time they didn't actually take anything, they just pulled out my cable and smelly old running shoes. At least this time I have an idea of who the person was, because I had half an eye on the sidewalk from my vantage point inside the coffeeshop. Still, ugh, leave my bike alone (small-city problems; default bike security protocols would look different in NYC).

So that all just means it's probably time to just go ahead and commit to a different bike basket management system. I am thinking about designing something that can be more easily attached to and completely removed from the front rack, so I can swap in or out one of several different options, instead of always having the basket. But this is a pretty substantial change to make, so it may take a while to get that all figured out.

After coffee with my rowing teammates, I went to the grocery co-op. Last Saturday I was a little dismayed to see that although the parking stalls and walkways around the co-op had been promptly cleared, the bike parking wasn't.

It was even more dismaying to see that nothing had changed a week later, except evidence of other people also using the one end spot I tromped over to through the snow.

Small bicycling indignities

I realize this might not look like much, and indeed, this entire rack is far more accessible than the other bike parking rack which has all of the snow shoveled out from elsewhere piled directly on top of it, up to the tops of the hoops.

But there was also that clear evidence that I haven't been the only person continuing to ride my bike to the co-op to get groceries. And this is a co-op where there's frequent conversation about the limited car parking in the parking lot, so presumably there's incentive to try and get people to travel to the co-op via other means whenever possible. That just makes it feel even worse to get overlooked, while knowing it is really a lot to do all this snow shoveling.

I was kind of tired and preoccupied with getting groceries, so I also really didn't feel like marching over to the Customer Service Desk to talk to someone about it all. At this point most likely what will happen is I will pack along the avalanche shovel for the next grocery shopping trip, because at this point I'm pretty sure that snow will still be there next week when I go back again.

So yeah, I'm ready for spring, why do you ask?

(cooking)

Feb. 14th, 2026 12:10 pm
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So i have some no-fat ricotta that i no longer need for the original reason. I figured maybe i could make something a little sweet and maybe it could satisfy my sweet tooth -- and it seemed like a good use for my dehydrated mulberries. I found some spice bush berries from 2024 in my pantry, preserved in sugar, and thought that might be a lovely combination. So: ground the mulberries, ground about a teaspoon of spicebush berries, and tossed the sugar from the jar in. Then spooned ... maybe half the small container into the bowl. I mixed, tasted, and ... brain churned, tastebuds argued, and... ah. It wasn't sugar, it was salt the spicebush berries were preserved in.

Oh my. So i mixed the rest of the ricotta in -- still really very salty -- and i read the internet. Apparently there is a drained, salted, and "aged" cheese called ricotta salata. So, i have put it in a filter bag and the tofu press and maybe it will be nice in salads?

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I took the bus to West Seattle for a munch and, more importantly, to see Blue Moon Lady. Ahem. Victory: it only too me two buses and seventy minutes, instead of the previous three buses and ninety minutes.

It's been ages since I went that far on California Ave., if I ever did. It's got an impressive number of small businesses. i get the impression that West Seattle wouldn't suck as a place to live, except that it's notoriously hard to get anywhere else from there.

Had pleasant chats with kinky folk. Collected kinky stickers. Colored weird drawings. Drank tasty beer at Good Society, which is a microbrewery. Happiness.

I mentioned to BML that I hadn't seen her at the Blue Moon lately. She said I should reminder her via... means I have at my disposal. Go me!

But then it came time to go home. I gave up and called a Lyft because I just didn't feel up to a ninety-minute trip starting at 2100. Le sigh.
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I dearly hope it is actually worth it.
The whole phone thing has been impossible and I screwed up moving phones and maybe what's wrong is I used the wrong google account comma but I don't have my apps back and I don't know if my message history and I can't get into facebook unless I can get into an authenticator on my old phone , and at this point I can barely get into the old phone at all.

And then i'm probably going to lose a nearly two years streak on finch.

Anyway comma
FYI for people in DC - a fun last minute music/activist event tonight at Lamont Plaza in Mt Pleasant, 5:45 - 8 pm.

The Minneapolis band Brass Solidarity is in town as part of a larger delegation from MN demanding the end of ICE in their communities (and all communities). The DC Activist Street Band has invited them to come out and play together, in support of our neighbors from city to city and state to state.

Brass Solidarity is an incredible group and expect this will be a great time. Some video of them from IG: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTeWR5CDETW/?


I'm so very tired period
And I'm so tired of my leg being a problem and I went and did a massage this yesterday and it was good for a little bit, but same problem with waking up with it, middle of the night. And i'm worried about sharing a bed for the next several nights.

Discord age verification

Feb. 13th, 2026 02:40 am
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I guess Discord is going to start requiring users to prove they are over a certain age if they want to access certain content.

I mainly use Discord to keep connected to fanfic fandom, most of which has certain content. And I definitely am not going to upload my ID.

Does this affect you? If so, what are you going to do when it goes into effect?
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